Navigating transitions is never easy, particularly for soloists who must juggle multiple demands. As I prepare to embark on new entrepreneurial adventures, I've been reflecting on the process of making decisions, particularly those that may have a significant impact on my future. Here are some questions I've been asking myself — ones that may also resonate with your solo business journey.

1. Where's the energy?
We can draw up the pro-and-con lists, articulate rationalizations, and craft logical arguments. But we cannot deny another question, posed to me by a close colleague: "Which option gives you the biggest energy jolt?" Experienced soloists know well the power that comes from focused effort, driven by enthusiasm. Don't ignore it.

2. Where's the future?
Sometimes carrying around big decisions in your head only increases their complexity. Instead, pull out a pencil or favorite marker, some blank paper, and chart out the possibilities. Diagrams, flow charts, timelines, sketches — all engage the brain in ways that internal deliberations cannot. My favorite: creating a map of possibilities. If "a" happens, then what are the potential "b" futures? Or, if "x" is pursued, what "y" opportunities (or limitations) emerge? Lines on paper illustrate new pathways, and implications for the future become clearer.

3. Who's in charge here, anyway?
When making big decisions, it's valuable to solicit feedback from multiple parties, particularly those who may have very different views than your own. Their insights bring new perspective to your thinking. It's crucial, however, to be clear on who makes the final evaluation. Only you? In concert with a spouse or life partner? Others? If it is solely your decision, beware of hidden influencers, such as concern for what "others" may think. Remember, in the end, most people are far more interested in their own lives than yours.

If, like me, you'll be making some big decisions over the coming months, I hope these insights guide you. I will return with the next Working Solo Minute on Wednesday, January 6, 2010. Until then, best wishes for a happy and safe holiday season.

-- Terri Lonier
Founder, WorkingSolo.com